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Dan and Kostya Break Out of a Ugandan Jail....

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So without giving out sordid unnecessary details, we had to break off relationship with someone we had been working with. It should have been an easy thing but has taken a dramatic turn. Today three police men barged into my courtyard demanding to see my husband. They didn't greet me but just sat down and said they'd wait for him. ( He was on the phone.) I warned Dan before he went out to talk to them that I didn't like the way they were acting. He greeted them and asked how he could help them. They pulled out their police badges and a criminal investigation paper that they wanted Dan to fill out. The day before we had invited people from our neighborhood over to our house for a sunday fellowship lunch. About 30 people showed up and we had an encouraging day of eating, prayer and songs. We thought we had finally found an avenue for ministry. So these police told Dan this morning that what we did was illegal and we were violating our visas by having these people over. Dan explained that it was just lunch with friends yet they started twisting his words and treating him like a criminal. During all this exchange they had taken our passports and were writing down the passport numbers. The head police interrogator became more and more hostile to Dan and I stood in the doorway fearing where this was heading. The head guy wanted a copy of Dan's passport so Dan offered to make a copy since we have a copy machine scanner in our home. He refused and also refused to give Dan his passport back. We became suspicious as the interrogation went from simple questions about our living in the neighborhood to who we worked for. They basically called Dan a liar and said we were in violation of our passport status and that we were cheating the government. Their questions were evasive and confusing and when Dan would try to answer them they'd interrupt him and twist his words. Finally they told him to come to the police station with them refusing to return his passport. I watched in fear as he walked out the gate with these three aggressive men thinking I may never see him again. I called out to them, “Where are you taking him? Which police station?” . They said a police station that wasn't even in our neighborhood and then we knew that we had been set up most likely by this person we were refusing to work with.

 

After Dan left I dissolved into tears, shaking uncontrollably as Lillian (my house girl and dear friend) hugged me and encouraged me to be strong. She too was fearful of what was happening. I tore the desk apart looking for somebody's number to call. I finally woke up John, our American liason in Minnesota and cried into his sleepy ear about Dan being taken away to the police station. He encouraged me to go to the American embassy without delay. I ran up to the guest house where the other interns were staying hoping to enlist them to help Dan but they were gone. So I kissed Ben good bye and hopped on a motorcycle taxi and sped away to the embassy. At this point I was desperately praying and begging God to intervene. I have heard all the stories about this corrupt government and was so fearful of what they may be doing to Dan. I told Lillian before I left to send the interns to the police station if they came by.

 

At the embassy I cried at the reception and was personally escorted to the head of the waiting line to see the guy who deals with American citizens. I ended up having to wait for 45 minutes until I could finally see someone. Meanwhile I was trying not to cry as I listened to Americans discuss their short term missions and projects that they were in Uganda for. I wanted to tell them to run away, to get out of this inhospitable and backward country. I was not in a good place emotionally as many of you could imagine. Finally after begging the man to speed up my interview I was allowed to speak to an American man who looked like a pencil pusher. (again remember my emotional state...) I thought, great he won't be able to help me at all. I was hoping for someone more imposing and beefy, like The Rock. He calmly listened to me as I cried like baby and told him about my husband being wrenched away before my eyes. He informed me that we didn't have the correct visa to allow us to ministry here in Uganda and that we were in violation of our passport but that it should be a simple issue to fix. I told him about this disgruntled person who I thought had been the one to send the police. Instead of telling me I was crazy or paranoid he agreed and said, “yeah I imagine this guy will cause you all sorts of problems.” He understood Africa better than I did at that moment. He agreed to call the police station and see what could be done to release my husband. I had to wait another agonizing 20 minutes and he finally called me back in and said he was going to go to the police station right away. I thanked him profusely and ran back outside to catch a taxi back home.

 

Meanwhile Dan texted me and told me NOT to send the interns to the police station. But because my phone had been at the security station at the embassy I didn't get the message in time. Vitaly and Kostya had gone to the police station and Kostya had gone in and left Vitaly waiting outside. Shortly after that Kostya texted Vitaly and told him to get away as fast as he could. So Vitaly tried non-chalantly to walk away from the police station. He hopped on a motorcycle taxi and said, “GO GO!”. He called me while I was on my way home and told me that now Kostya was being held with Dan as well. As I was leaving on the taxi from the embassy I saw my embassy contact leaving heading for the police station.

 

I got home and Vitaly and I compared notes. We were stunned at this turn of events. I called our old friend Maria who we had stayed with on our first trip to Uganda. She was an ex-government official and she gave me the name of a lawyer. While I was calling the lawyer Dan and Kostya arrived back at our house and I told the lawyer I'd call him back. I hugged Dan so relieved that he was home. He told me that the pencil pusher from the embassy had acutally been a ruthless interrogator himself and had shamed the police into releasing Dan and Kostya. (Never judge a book by it's cover right?) I called the lawyer and set up an appointment for tomorrow.

 

So what can I learn from this? Because that makes it valuable and not just a scary lonely experience. I realized that God wasn't taken by surprise this morning. He knew those men would come and He sustained us through it all. I learned that Satan really doesn't want us here. I learned that there is evil in this world and in broken sinful people that I have never experienced before. We are capable of so much evil apart from Christ. I learned to rejoice like Paul when the tribulation came. In the moment I was so scared but through it all I KNEW it would be okay. And how exciting to know that we are being slandered and troubled for the cause of furthering the gospel amongst a needy people. My favorite books have been missionary biographies for the past few years. And now I could identify with the trials that come with missions. ( On a much smaller scale...this drama wasn't nearly as bad as some that I've read about.) I had prayed for encouragement and I believe it came in this form. Until God tells me it's time to go home we will stay in Uganda. Please continue to pray for our safety and protection from further attempts to defame and hurt us. Pray for our kids to be secure in our family and not to worry. And pray for God to send more workers here. We need the fellowship and encouragement of other missionaries here.

 

Psalm 37 has been giving me great comfort and perspective the past few weeks as this drama has been unfolding. I hope it will be a blessing and encouragement for the times of tribulation that are sure to come in your own lives! As one of my favorite teachers ends his letters, “Much love and many tribulation!” Thanks Ed!

 

 

Last Updated ( Tuesday, 16 June 2009 05:01 )
 

Conclusion of Life With Sumaiya

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I just started reading a book written by a Wycliff translator in the jungles of Papau New Ginea. In her first month living with the primitive tribe she witnessed a witch doctor pronounce an eleven year old boy dead. While this translator and her friend went to watch the burial they saw the boy moving as they lowered him into the grave. She cried out in english to the tribal chief, “He is alive, we can still save him! Let me help!”. The chief didn't understand her english but shooed her away from the burial. Her and her friend watched helplessly as the tribe buried the boy believing that his spirit had left him even though he was still moving. The emotional trauma caused them to fly to the nearest base to recover and deal with the realization that they were helpless to change the outcome of the boy's life. In time they returned and had years and years of ministry with this tribe, teaching them to read and write in their own language.

 

I read this story Sunday night before turning off my light and tucking in the mosquito net. As I drifted to sleep I heard Dan get up to check on a mysterious noise. Withing minutes I heard screaming and crying and people shouting in my house. I got up to find Sumaiya, our “foster child” and her distraught mother in my front room. Sumaiya had run away from her mom yet again and had almost gotten shot by our guard trying to come into our house. Her mother was in a frightened rage. We sat down and tried to piece together what had happened through a translator. This girl who we had tried to help by housing her for two weeks was now unwilling to live with her mother. She wanted to live with us forever. Dan and I looked on helplessly as her mother pulled her to her feet to take her home. The mother and translator basically had to drag Sumaiya by her arms to the street as Sumaiya screamed the whole way. My kids woke up wondering why Sumaiya was screaming. It was horrible. We went back to bed after they left but sleep wouldn't come. I felt like the Wycliff lady watching the death of a child she was helpless to save. Dan and I prayed for Sumaiya and her mom and finally went to sleep.

 

The next morning Sumaiya's mom was back asking us to let Sumaiya live with us permanently. The girl was refusing any other place to live. Even though she has numerous relatives in her stubbornness she wouldn't hear of going anyplace but with us. I struggled so greatly during this tranlsated exchange with her mom. A part of me wanted to pull Sumaiya on my lap and show her what a “normal” family should be. But another part of me knew that because she isn't an orphan and her mom stole her from her dad, we would have no legal ability to keep her. On top of that Sumaiya is a typical rebellious seven year old that I struggled with the two weeks she lived with us. I sighed in frustration at the situation we now found ourselves in.

 

Like the Wycliff translator I feel emotionally drained by this situation. Helpless to do anything for Sumaiya who herself is unwilling to quit running away when she gets mad. I want to tell her mom the same thing as the translator, “I can help her...I can save her.” Except it dawned on my today that I can't. There is nothing in my power apart from Christ that I can do to change Sumaiya's circumstances. She will most likely be returned to her father's village and be raised muslim, married at 14. Dan and I know that God allowed Sumaiya into our life for a reason. He didn't do it to frustrate us. We gave her love while we had her, what more could we do? The hard lesson is that we can't help everyone. There are kids all around our depressed neighborhood who need clothing, food, drinking water, school fees and most of all loving parents. I want to scream at my inablility to help sometimes. Yet like the Wycliff translator I can't abandon this culture or give up. We may be given years of fruitful ministry and service by God here in Uganda or He might send us home tomorrow. Our job is to serve faithfully either way. We will continue helping the “Sumaiyas” that God puts in our lives to the best of our ability and trust that God has it worked out. Please pray for our discouragement to be short lived and for Sumaiya to still see God's hand in her life.

 

 

 

Our Life With Sumaiya

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Sumaiya is on her fourth day with us in our house. Lest any of you think how wonderful we are and how selfless this act is for us to house her...read on.

 

Day 1: We bring Sumaiya home and I push all the misgivings to the back of my mind. The nagging voice keeps saying...”she doesn't speak english!!!!”. Assured of my abilities to quickly master a difficult african language with no grammar rules I shrug and pull out my Luganda dictionary. This will be fun I think to myself. We take Sumaiya with us to a restaurant to celebrate my birthday before heading to Entebbe to pick visitors up at the airport. Again I sit at the restaurant very pleased with myself for having a foster child and I am delighted by her antics. For instance: the waitress brings her a glass of ice water and Sumaiya looks in it and then looks at me and points to the ice and says, “ehhh?”. She has never seen ice before. Then she leans over and says, “sou, sou”, which means she has to go to the bathroom. I take her into the restaurant bathroom and show her the toilet. She looks perplexed. She has never used a real toilet. Again I am amazed at what we take for granted in the USA. I explain with hand motions how to sit and flush and she masters it quickly. While we are eating I was a little disturbed when she tasted something she didn't like and spit it on the floor. Or when she finished her orange she threw the peel across the room to the bushes. (We were sitting outside so it wasn't as bad as you think.) Try explaining to a girl from the village that we don't throw food on the floor.

 

We arrive at the airport, pick up our friends and come home. By this time it is late and Sumaiya has fallen asleep in the car. When Dan picks her up to bring her in she wakes up crying. We kind of panic but she soon stops and I put her to bed without any more struggles. Again I think to myself...”how fun! We have an African child!”.

 

Day 2: Sumaiya picks through the fruit granola I've given her for breakfast and even spits some of the fruit out and then puts it in Aiden's bowl as he is eating. Good boy that he is...he doesn't flinch but keeps eating away. I realize that Sumaiya is used to eating three things. Posho, matoke and beans. I only know how to make beans. I make a note to self to not take it personally when she rejects our food. Lillian comes by and makes her posho and Sumaiya is so happy. Food crisis averted. The day grows long and tiring as our house is small and there are now five kids in it all day. Lillian also brings her three year old over everyday while she cleans. So I begin to grow a little annoyed. (Shocking for those who know me I'm sure). Next door is a traditional African Introduction Ceremony where the bride and grooms family meet. The music is blaring so loud we can hardly talk to eachother as we try to visit with our guests. The blaring music and heat of the day combined with five kids running through the house wears on me. Through the day Sumaiya becomes more and more attatched to Dan. She literaly clings to him or hangs from his arm wherever he is. Hannah begins to show signs of jealousy especially when Dan takes Sumaiya with him to buy chapati for dinner and she returns with a piece of chocolate he bought her waving it triumphantly before Hannah's jealous eyes. Hannah breaks down in tears and wants to know when it is her turn to go on a “Daddy Date”.

 

I tell Dan I need a trip to Tank Hill where we get Italian Gelato for $1 a cup. We all pile in the car. Four kids in back and four adults in the other front and back seats. As we leave the blaring throbbing music next door I begin to relax a little. We all have some gelato which Sumaiya doesn't like. A kid that doesn't like ice cream? Is it possible? As we go to get in the car Sumaiya tries to get in the middle seat instead of the back. I tell her no...all the kids are sitting in back. She gets a death grip on the door handle and won't let go as I try to gently pry her hands off. I show her that is where our guests sit and the kids sit in back. She stubbornly shakes her head no. Dan comes around to try to put her in the back and she crumples to the ground in a fit of tears still refusing. Paul, one of our adult guests graciously gets in the back with Aiden so Sumaiya can sit in the seat she wants. I grow angry and frustrated at her defiance and insist she sits in back. (Okay, in hindsight it was ridiculous for me to do so but the day had been so terrible I just snapped.) By now Ben has gotten in the middle seat with Paul's wife too so Dan tells Sumaiya she can sit there but she has to go around to the other side and not crawl over Phyllis. She again throws herself down when Dan tries to move her. He manages to get her in the car on the other side and we are off. All this time my kids are watching with fascination I'm sure wondering why Sumaiya got away with this display of disobedience. By the time we get home I'm still frustrated. I herd the kids into the bedroom to get ready for bed. Sumaiya is still glued to Dan's side. Hannah wasn't feeling well after the gelato and so Dan tried to pick her up and comfort her in the meantime he had to shrug Sumaiya off his back. She ran outside in a fit and wouldn't come in because she wanted Dan to hold her not Hannah. I began to think...”this is really bad.” So with Hannah crying about her stomach and Ben crying about something (as he usually is) and Sumaiya growing more defiant by the minute I tell them all to get in bed. Hannah gets in our bed, the boys get in their beds and Sumaiya refuses. I point to her bed and say, “Sumaiya...ekitanda.” (which means bed) She shakes her head and refuses. Dan tries and she refuses. She walks down the hallway away from us ignoring us as we call her name. Dan brings her back and again tells her to get in bed. She refuses. I am so frustrated by this point I want to scream. I can't spank her since we are pretty sure her mom has been too harsh. I can't explain or reason with her since she doesn't speak english. Dan leaves to go get our security guard to translate. I decide that no translation is needed, she knows exactly what I'm telling her to do. So I pick her up, prying her fingers from the door jamb and put her in bed. She glares at me a little and slides her legs off the bed so I can't tuck in the mosquito net. I put her legs back up on the bed and she stays this time. I tuck in the net, turn out the light and breathe a huge sigh as I leave the room. The only thought running through my head is, “I can't do this, I can't do this, I can't do this.”

 

Day 3: Sumaiya wakes up all smiles like nothing happened and greets me. We have a nice breakfast, which she eats without complaint. Okay, the day might be better. We get ready for church and Sumaiya seems pleasant and happy to go. Lillian and her son show up and I give her a rundown of Sumaiya's behavior the night before and ask her to talk to Sumaiya about it. Lillian shakes her head and says, “That girl is not alone.” (meaning she may be possessed. ) I wasn't willing to call the girl possessed yet but chalk it up to a frightened lonely girl acting out and testing our discipline. Church was nice. We had lunch at the pastor's house. Sumaiya played with other kids. We went home and Dan and Lillian took Sumaiya and Hannah to a prayer meeting with Sumaiya's mom. So I had a quiet house for two hours. Ben and Abraham (Lillian's son) slept and Aiden and I curled up on the couch and read books for two hours.

 

Dan has begun to slowly detach himself from Suamiya. Not in a mean way but we realize in two weeks she'll be going somewhere else and her attatchment to Dan could be a devastating thing for her to break. We had a nice dinner and fellowship with our friends. Sumaiya and Hannah bathed the African way naked outside with buckets of water. They had fun splashing eachother and giggling. It was so nice to hear. Sumaiya has started to imitate everything we say and it can be soooo funny. We have taught her to say “chicken pot pie” and “what is it man???” which are two of our favorite sayings. To hear her african accent say our slang is so cute. She often follows us around imitating our actions too. She loves to do dishes and her and Hannah were occupied for an hour doing them together. All in all it was a better day. Sumaiya even held my hand a few times and was affectionate.

 

When bedtime came, she went obediently to bed. We read a few books which she imitated every word and then they all went to bed. I breathed a huge sigh of relief and gratitude for an easier day.

 

Day 4: I am writing this on day four. This morning I have been thinking hard about what will happen to Sumaiya in two weeks. I don't think her place is with us permanently. I fear we are doing damage by introducing our western living. She may not be content with the way she used to live after living with us. She refused oatmeal this morning which I started to demand she eat but then gave up. She started doing dishes for me this morning and was smiling and sweet. I cannot begin to guess how the next few days will go. This has shown me the depths of my selfishness and my desire for comfort. It would be so much easier not to have her here. But then I think of what she has been through and what she has in store in the future and I am ashamed that I am not more compassionate. This whole experience has really exposed my heart in an uncomfortable way.

 

So please pray. Pray for patience for me with Sumaiya. Pray that God would help me to love her like He does. Pray that I would give myself up to her needs for the next few weeks. That this time would be one of love for her that might point her to Christ. Pray that a solution would present itself in the next two weeks for where she will live. ( Her dad is a muslim in Jinja but may be her best option as I'm not sure I'll recommend her returning to her mom.) Pray that if God tells us to take her on long term that I would be willing and obedient and joyful. Pray for our kids to be understanding of her needs and be kind. ( So far they've all gotten along except for a few minor issues.) Pray that I would not wallow in my selfishness but see what God is teaching me through this. Pray for Dan and I to be unified as we work with Sumaiya.

 

Thank you all for your prayers. Sumaiya is alive and well and that is such a blessing. Most kids who go missing here never return to their families. Be in prayer also for her future and her salvation. Thanks to all!

 

Prayers for Amaya

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Lillian and Juliette are two friends and both single moms who share a room the size of most of your walk in closets. Lillian has a son Abraham who calls me Mommy. Juliette has a daughter Amaya who speaks no english but has played at our house with Hannah a few times and has the sweetest smile. On Monday this week Amaya ran away from her mom when she was caught skipping school. She is seven years old. Juliette, her mom is about 25 years old and divorced. She married a Muslim man and the marriage was bad and Amaya was the only good thing that came from it. Juliette just recently got Amaya back from her ex-husband who lives about an hour away.

 

On Monday we were all mildly concerned about Amaya. It is common here for children even as young as three to wander the streets free from their parents. Amaya running in fear of a beating from her mom was disobedient but honestly we thought nothing of it. By nightfall however, we were all beginning to worry. Juliette called to see if Amaya had come to our house to hideout. Juliette and Lillian spent the evening searching the neighborhoods for Amaya to no avail. They even went to the police office to report her missing. The police officers almost arrested Juliette. You see when children go missing here it is usually due to someone stealing them for child sacrifices or even worse, their own parents sacrificing them. I know my friends in the west may have a hard time believing this still happens. It does. Since January there have been 100 kids abducted for sacrifices. So the police were skeptical of Juliette's story and accused her of sacrificing her daughter for material gain. They eventually let her go but obviously they will be of no help.

 

Today is Wednesday May 6th. Amaya has been gone for almost three days now. Daniel and I decided to go to Juliette's house and pray with her. She and Lillian live just a step up from a real slum by Ugandan standards but by western standards their house is lacking. The corrugated metal roof was blazing hot and heating the brick and mud walls to an almost unbearable degree. Juliette met us at the doorway with a smile and welcomed us in. Juliette speaks very little english and like most Ugandans she doesn't show a lot of real emotion. We knew she was terribly worried yet she still smiled when we came in. Her smile soon faded and she dropped her mask as we asked if we could pray for her and Amaya. I sat on a couch with her and put my hand on her back. The air was stifling. Dan asked me to begin the prayer and he would finish. I bowed my head and couldn't hold back the tears as I interceded for Amaya's safe return. Juliette also began to cry softly and I could feel her back shaking as she tried to hold back the tears. I have never felt such an urgency to plead with God as I did today. It was so very real when you hold the hand of a grieving mother whose child is lost.

 

Dan finished the prayer in a halting voice not knowing even what to say. Juliette wiped her eyes and I hugged her. We tried to convey our sorrow for her and encourage her to hold fast to God. The language barrier was there but I know she understood. We left her in her sweltering room to sit and wait with a dreadful longing for Amaya to return or to receive word that she had been found. I couldn't imagine the agony of waiting as we left and went home to our kids.

 

Hannah, Aiden and Ben prayed for Amaya tonight. I hope and urge you all to do the same. I know that God is good and everything is for His glory so I have to exercise faith and trust He has it all worked out. For now we continue to search for Amaya in every crowd. She was last seen wearing a dress I had sewn for Hannah but had passed onto her since it fit her better. Please please pray for her and for her mom Juliette. And hug your kids a little tighter tonight and thank God for the time you have with them.

 

Thank You So Much!!!!

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Hey faithful followers of the drama that is our life!  I just had to write a quick update.  We get our monthly financial reports at the end of the month.  So when new people graciously give to support us here we often don't know for a whole month after the fact.  So today we got our first piece of mail and found out that many of you lovelies had begun to support us or had given generous one time gifts.  Thank you sooooo much.  Don't ever think we don't appreciate it.  We are humbled everytime often to tears.  And as always your prayers are vital for our survival here.  So again to those who pray and give....WEBALE NYO NYO NYO!!!!  That means THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!  We love you all and miss you terribly.  As we enter our fourth month continue to pray for us!  We are praying for you!
 
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 Loring Morris

 

Gender: Female

DOB: May 8, 1978

Status: Married with 3 kids

Favorite Quote: "Anything that causes us to cry out to God is a blessing to us" - Matthew Henry

Favorite Song: Generations

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Favorite Bible passage: Psalm 96

 


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